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12 STEP PROGRAM OPPORTUNISTS AND PARASITES


In describing this ilk of attendee to meetings of NA-my former fellowship of choice(I no longer attend any 12 Step fellowship meetings)-I will clarify this by describing them as those who make money from other “addicts”.
First, I must explain my view of an “addict”. “Addicts” are those caught up in a continual addiction pattern which they have yet to overcome. Everyone else calling themselves as such uses the noun as an affectation or a distortion-because usually, they deny their complete recovery. At this point I use recovery as a past tense, since many have completely overcome their addiction and others use the term as a crutch, an excuse not to change their behaviors or cop out on general mistakes they make. In the end, a lot of this winds up ongoing self-deprecation.

Many of these “addicts” get a sort of Messianic complex where they distort the 12th Step, “Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these Steps, we tried to carry the message to addicts and practice these principles in all our affairs.” Actually, many use this to justify exploiting(sub-consciously or consciously) others and gratifying their lack of self-esteem by believing they are actually helping other addicts “recover” from their disease. The high relapse rates of most counseling, 12 Step Programs, halfway houses, and other recovery industry institutions and businesses show this these efforts as in-efficacious and exploitative.

I think they ought to get exposed as often as possible on a case by case basis. In particular, the self-styled gurus of all this nonsense ought to get turned out publicly at every chance to give overcoming addiction every opportunity to capitalize on one of the strongest, most effective strategies-peer pressure to overcome, rather than cliques and cultist characteristics. When the “recovered” share their strategies for free or charge for them on a result basis, we then have peerage subject to oversight by the end user(lol). The recovery industry has over a billion dollars of revenue each year and got created primarily to be affiliated with the counseling and pharmaceutical industries for the purpose of having ongoing clientele, like most businesses. Counselors with “credentials”, e.g. Psych degrees, counseling degrees, and “addiction” certifications, ought to be scrutinized on the basis of their results and efficacy and given consumer ratings by independent, nonprofit oversight groups funded by taxing these bastards. Yes, I don’t like most of them and see the counselors in particular, albeit most of them mislead by their teachers and other affiliated “professionals”, as parasites. These individuals keep themselves from business or employment which earns them a socially productive, honest means of making a living.

Of course, people pay psychics, and other pseudo professional counselors for a feel good or some form of edification inasmuch as I enjoy a good round of sexual pleasure for some form of social exchange-at least when I do this I am mostly going to get a desired result with some form of consensual exchange.

Yes, a good orgasm usually works better than counseling which sucks money from its clients for years or from 12 Step program fellowships where much of the prattle involves telling participants they have an incurable disease and may need meetings, sponsorship, and the Twelve Steps for the rest of their lives.

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6 Responses to “12 STEP PROGRAM OPPORTUNISTS AND PARASITES”

  1. I can understand your thinking, as I have been there. I recently wrote about how faulty beliefs held by 12 step groups and treatment professionals can actually harm more than help. Thought you and your readers might benefit from it. http://secretchords.blogspot.com/2011/11/addiction-recovery-relapse-self-help.html

  2. I’m having a difficult time understanding your point of view. So at some point you used anonymous programs and/or the mental health profession to help you through recovery/self-improvement, and while you’re still abstinent since those times, you look back and denigrate something that is so intimately associated with your recovery just because there are no guarantees that they will help anyone who walks through their doors/into those rooms? I highly doubt you’re naive, but to say that a series of sexual encounters would have served you better during early abstinence than what ever else it was you used is disingenuous, it does not fit the facts of your history. I can’t prove you wrong, but you can’t prove yourself right. So in the end, entitled as you are, you forget what actually got you through early abstinence, covering it up with some imaginary scenario that you feel could have gotten you through early abstinence. Spew your rancor all you want, how about being a little more transparent though.

    • LMAO…how the fuck do you know what worked or didn’t work when I recovered? I didn’t fully recover until I realized there was no disease-nothing to recover from. What really happened was I got away from people who I hung out with who used. I committed myself to staying clean no matter what happened. I finally got a sense of total self acceptance when I looked at myself as completely as possible without judgment. I didn’t get that from the “program”. It just happened for me over a period of time. All the program stuff distracted me from addiction long enough to change my behaviors from a lifestyle of drugs to a lifestyle excluding drugs. Eventually, all the “symptoms” went away when I stopped believing I was still an addict.

      Deprogramming was difficult. I am glad I did it. I no longer live in fear I need a 12 Step program to remain abstinent.

      • Not sure what you’re laughing your ass off at, you proved my point. You can’t say you could have done it without a program considering that you actually used a program. So, your rants are theoretically based, not what actually happened. The question then becomes, why are you so bitter towards what actually guided you? Your prolonged abstinence is tied to a history that you can’t divorce yourself from. Your history IS tied to the rooms/mental health profession… Your rants describe your desire of what it OUGHT to have been. See the difference? No amount of opinion or wishing will allow you to go back in time and try it all over again. If instead you were to have done it without the help of others who knew more than you at the time of your early abstinence then you would be justified in saying 12-step recovery/mental health profession is not needed. But You Can’t considering You Used These Resources. Now the question for me is why the hell am I wading in the acerbic masturbatory ejaculations of someone who obviously chooses to feel as if he was wronged? Omphaloskepsis to you bub.

  3. Your assertions are wrong. You weren’t there, so how could you know what I really did to stay clean…duh, didn’t use. The support of that ended at six weeks. All that was left was religiosity and the preaching of self deprecation dribbling out of the mouths of fucktards in the rooms…your attempt here is that of a quasi learned fucktard…
    The “program” is not what worked. What worked was behavioral modification and belief change. There’s no disease of addiction, no mental health, no mental illness. 12 step programs and mental ‘health” “professionals” have such low efficacy that all your claims wind up erroneous on a good day. Because I may have believed some program was working does not mean it worked. I wasted seventeen years in therapy and got more out of three seminars of Omega Vector and two years of NLP and hypnosis than all the years shitting around “in the rooms”.


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